KNOWING • Part 2: Interpreting Your History
Who we are is a story that is continually being written. Our narrative is a collection of our thoughts, feelings, and experiences, shaping what we commonly refer to as our 'identity.' While it often seems like this story has reached its conclusion, it is, in reality, an ever-changing saga.
The true awakening in our journey of self-discovery comes when we realize that the story of ourselves is still unfolding and that we are its sole authors. Recognizing the profoundly active role we play in defining who we are and directing the course of our lives is a crucial step towards harnessing our inner strength.
As children, we actively engage with the question of who we are. We try new things, adapt to new surroundings, and dream of what life will be like in the future. This exploration is essential to our growth, filled with curiosity and openness. But as we progress through life, a shift occurs. We often find ourselves spending less time dreaming and developing, and more time settling into our surroundings. The dynamic process of self-discovery and growth gets overshadowed by a tendency to play into predefined roles and narratives.
Yet, it's important to remind ourselves that our story is far from complete. Each day is a fresh page, an opportunity to write a new chapter, to redefine our identity, and to shape our future. It is a continuous journey, one where our evolving narrative is always open to growth, change, and the endless possibilities that life offers.
Take some time to reflect on the many hopes and dreams you had as a child.
How did you imagine your life would turn out? What were your earliest aspirations?
What did you enjoy playing? What did you create?
Where did you want to go? What was your favorite imaginary place?
Who made you feel empowered to try new things? Do you recall your caregivers or mentors' passions?
Find time to reconnect to your inner voice holding the pen that writes your future.